tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3843079982602064070.post6850402863551701656..comments2023-06-22T03:02:43.435-07:00Comments on Shelves in the Closet: In Response:Ms. Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08610613067782656189noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3843079982602064070.post-15824223568272629572009-03-09T11:47:00.000-07:002009-03-09T11:47:00.000-07:00See!! It's a contagious slippery slope of negative...See!! It's a contagious slippery slope of negative self loathing. Boo - I was hoping a blog would be a good cathartic purging. I felt the need to stick up for myself too. I felt like a lump for 2 days after reading that. Less. Effective.Ms. Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08610613067782656189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3843079982602064070.post-13697801760410489772009-03-09T09:05:00.000-07:002009-03-09T09:05:00.000-07:00I think that critical behavior in general is hypoc...I think that critical behavior in general is hypocritical.<BR/><BR/>How can you complain about the behavior of someone else without your own becoming glaringly apparent?<BR/><BR/>That's why it has to be done in a clinical (and not personal) way if you want anyone to take you seriously. I think you did a good job where he, obviously, failed.<BR/><BR/>Also, the question comes to mind, why is he wasting time complaining about the kind of woman he <I>doesn't</I> want instead of trying to BE the kind of man that the kind of woman he <I>does</I> want, would want.<BR/><BR/>I had a few pointless crushes on people I wasn't suited to, people I could have had friendships with.<BR/><BR/>I've also had friendships with people I'd NEVER date, but really enjoy (e.g. Jake).<BR/><BR/>Does he honestly believe that his "type" is the good, the right, and the ONLY type?<BR/><BR/>Talk about arrogance. <BR/><BR/>(And look at me being critical! I'd better conclude.)Mary Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13089686842306287585noreply@blogger.com